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Buster and Mittens have lived together two years and I still don't think they actually like eac

They tolerate each other, sure. No fights, no drama. But Mittens still hisses if Buster gets too close to her spot on the couch, and he still barks at her when she jumps up somewhere unexpected. We were hoping for one of those viral cuddle-buddy situations and got roommates who mostly ignore each other instead. Is that just how it goes sometimes or is there more we could be doing?
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honestly this made me laugh, King acts the exact same way with our old dog before he passed, total roommates energy the whole time 😭 some pets just aren't going to be best friends and that's ok too

#dog #cat #friend

If you want to push past "tolerate" toward something closer, a certified animal behaviorist can sometimes speed this up with structured sessions. There's a directory of pet services on the site if that's useful: https://allinpets.com/services/

I think two years of no fighting is actually a success, even if it's not the cuddly ending people picture. AllinPets has a good guide on building that relationship further if you want to try, with steps for slow reintroduction even this far in: How to Help Your Dog and Cat Become Best Friends (https://allinpets.com/blog/dogs/how-to-help-your-dog-and-cat-become-best-friends-22/)

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